I am a fun loving, adventuresome, witty, athletic anesthesiologist in San Diego. I believe that honesty and communication are key in any relationship...as is intimacy and sex. Laughter is the best medicine, and thrive when I am challenged with quick wit. I came from a poor family and have worked very hard my whole life to get to where I am. I am attracted to intelligent people who appreciate what they have. When I can, I spend most of my free time doing something active...usually cycling, surfing, spin class, or going to the gym. I dabble in golf (although I usually end up off the fairway). I am generally upbeat, outgoing, and somewhat mischevious. Being from NY originally, I have liking for dressing up and heading out, but I am equally comfortable in jeans and a baseball cap enjoying a picnic lunch on the grass in a quiet park. I am looking for a hopeful romantic, someone creative, a thinker, a partner in crime, a soulmate, a best friend and lover who lives close to San Diego, who ideally is at least moderately attractive, but more importantly honest, witty, with a fun spirit, who likes to travel ....and who brings out the best in me. I am seeking to find a wonderful man with whom I can share my life with. I'm on the fence about having children. If I meet the right man who wants a family, I imagine I would love to do that. I have frozen my eggs so I am not racing against the unforgiving time clock to have children. On the other hand, if I meet someone wonderful who doesn't want children, that's ok too. I know Mr Right is out there. You never know when something wonderful will take you by surprise until you give it a chance. So don't be shy and say hello.