SO here I am. Ready and wanting to find someone to spend some quality time with on a 'long-term' plan. I have a toddler whom resides with me, except for one night per week and every other weekend. Right now I am a stay at home mom. I do have career goals which I will obtain, but right now I feel that the best thing I can do for my daughter is be home with her, making sure that she is raised in the way that is the most holistic for her. This means that things are not going to progress into 'the date that never ends' and you magically just end up moving in. I am totally cool with a man who has kids, but I can't have any more, by choice. Chances are if I have checked your profile and not messaged you, that it's because I am not the kind of gal to make the first move... so if you're interested, send a message... I will respond to any that are sent, unless they are utterly ridiculous, or if you have pictures of any children on your profile (see below) Things about me: I love to do summer-time outdoor things, but I like to stay in during winter months. Straight to the point... and yet secretly shy about some things ask questions, get answers... Love classic rock and the 80s and 90s not really into most country, metal, rap, although there are exceptions... live well, laugh lots... I love to read I am a big fan of Shakespeare and love live theatre, although I don't get to see much these days I plan on one day going to see some Broadway shows in New York My favourite all time musicians are Leonard Cohen and Billy Joel I haven't lots to say at this point in time, but will field any questions that may be pertinent. I'm very direct and prefer to call a spade a shovel, don't be easily offended please no 'untruths'... I've already had enough of those.