Single, attractive, sincere, independent, genuine, woman, 40 years old, in a career I love, looking for the same qualities that do not cost a dime. I am fortunate to have a strong sense of self and have never felt or believed I "need" a man, but rather I "want" a man, a friend, a lover to experience lifes' joys and challenges with. I have carry on baggage only and check it at the door. I am responsible for my happiness and don't want to meet someone to change them, or have them change me. We should celebrate differences no? I own a farm, I am very down to earth and love to explore different sides of my personality. Can very well put on jeans and get dirty on the farm, jump on a horse and look great in a dress for dinner...your choice. Flexibility is my friend...he he. There is not a materialistic bone in my body. What I'm looking for does not cost anything but seems so elusive. I need and enjoy stimulating conversation and can engage in such activities easily. My friends describe me as uplifting, generous, down to earth, friendly and loyal. Love to camp, ride my horses, watch the mist on the field in the morning and pet my animals before getting ready for work. There is nothing better than swimming in a still lake after dinner while on a camping trip either. Life is short. As corny as that sounds, it's simply true. Most importantly, I love to laugh and I hope you do too. If you agree good. lets talk. till then, take care of you...Amanda