Well here I am trying to decribe to the world what I'm looking for, when I don't really know, do any of us? All I can say is I think I'll know once I've met him. I usually find myself attracted to men who are fun, caring, confident (but not arrogant), a nice smile and a twinkle in the eye. (Am I asking for too much.)!! I also like men that are really secure in themselves, men that don't want to control you...but love being with you for all the right reasons. I also like men who have looked after themselves, I don't mind an older man, as long as he's well turned out... One more thing, have you ever met a couple that are so themselves with each other,and they are great to be around....mmm I love the work I do, and would like to meet someone who is equally as happy, I can't bear moaners who hate the work they do, but aren't prepared to change anything. My glass is half full, don't get me wrong we all have bad days.... When I do get spare time I like eating out, going to nice bars,socialising with friends, I also like going for walks,(but I'm not into hikes,) and I do like to travel, weekend breaks can be great! One more thing moody men need not apply