Big picture huh ? Well I'm as REAL as REAL's gonna get. I'm not gonna pretend to be someone I'm not . If I have to lie to save someone's feelings or spare someone pain from knowing a lie from someone else. I will not be the initiator of pain . That's just not NICE. Downright NASTY. I'm at times eclectic and sometimes traditional. Born and raised a girl up north I'm not a haywire type , party-er or boozer. Not this girl. I do have a healthy attitude about life, life lessons and pleasing a man. Always have......I believe you learn new things every day and well..... penny for your thoughts.