I have finally realised that after 2-3 years of being single, that perhaps it would be nice to have someone else in my life other than my son and my career ! Someone once told me that life is like a bed of roses, they just forgot to take out the thorns..which really summarises my philosophy on most things. However, I have learnt to work hard but at the same time play hard too...afterall Life is about balance. I am looking to meet someone who is ambitious, motivated but also who has a love of life which enables an ability to prioritise. An understanding of family and the importance of this contact is also very important to me..as well as an understanding of the frustrations that often result ... If someone out there is as confused as me, it would be great to hear from you !!!